1. Start with the Unchained Monk as the base.
2. Add whip to the weapon proficiencies and replace the crossbow with bow (longbows and shortbows)
3. Replace the Stunning First per-level abilities with this set of hexes and variant abilities:
1st Level: Prehensile Hair (as the hex except attacks with hair do the same damage as normal
Unarmed Strike attacks for the witch's current level)
4th Level: Mythic Strangling Hair [treat as a hex] automatically activates when the witch uses her
Prehensile Hair
8th Level: Evil Eye
12th Level: Poison Touch
16th Level (Blind or Deafen as Stunning Fist, but only when using hair attacks)
20th Level (Paralyze as Stunning Fist. but only when using hair attacks)
There, that should play a lot better.